ROCKSTAR-pickup
The secrets of a dating coach
MortenHake.com Summit 2010!
Heisann guttegræbbar!
Jeg husker for tre år siden, når jeg møtte Morten/ICON første gangen. Vi spilte tekken 3 på playstation hans og ingen av oss visste hva fremtiden ville bringe. Jeg knuste han selvfølgelig i Tekken, men det betyr ikke at Morten ikke er verdens råeste fyr av den grunn, han suger bare i Tekken. Haha, må innrømme jeg skriver dette litt for å irritere Morten. Men ok, nå tre år senere er Morten en av Norges fremste på selvutvikling. Han har fått til syke ting før, men dette topper heile driiiten. Seriøst. Hva den gutten har fått til på ren viljekraft er utrolig.
Han har på egen hånd samlet en haug av kjente sjekke og selvutviklings-guruer til å komme til lille Norge for å snakke til deg! Jeg var stolt av å ha fått Ross Jeffries hit, bare for å finne ut at Morten drar inn over ti store navn HIT! Haha, det er så sykt. Den mannen er et geni når det kommer til nettverksbygging og salg. Alle elsker Morten. Det er ikke vanskelig, så karismatisk som mannen er. Men nok om Morten. Damn. Vi konkurrerer alltid og jeg elsker det, så jeg kan ikke skryte mer av han uten å bli litt grønn i trynet, så nå holder det.
Uansett. Jeg forventer at alle som ønsker å bli flinkere til å sjekke damer og få kontroll på livet sitt eller bare er nysgjerrige møter opp på dette. Fuck hytteturen du planla, fuck sydenturen du planla, fuck daten med den lubne morsomme dama, møt opp på noe bedre.
- Ønsker du mer ut av livet ditt?
- Ønsker du å kommunisere bedre med andre mennesker?
- Ønsker du å forstå det motsatte kjønn bedre?
- Ønsker du å oppnå ditt potensialet?
Mer verdi for penga får du ikke. Og det lille du gir fra deg av penger for å delta går til en god sak Morten brenner for The Anjera Foundation.
Klikk deg innpå denne LINKEN nå og les mer om eventen.
Ok, du vil vite et par navn før du fører den tunge musa di over på linken, ey?
Av alle de internasjonale heltene, er dette mine favoritter:
Paul Janka
Youtube denne mannen og du kommer på eventen og i buksa.
Johnny Soporno
Pornostjerne, sjekkeguru, playboy, “gærning” you name it. Det norske miljøet har lært MYE av denne mannen. Genial.
Michael Lassen
Sinnsykt dreven NLP-guru. Var på et fantastisk seminar med denne mannen en gang.
Neil Natura
Min egen og Mortens mentor og coach. Har du hatt lyst til å dra på Anthony Robbins-seminar før? Dette er det nærmeste du kommer.
Amadeus Hellequin
Helt rå fyr, vel verdt å modellere. Ser ut som en sjørøver, drar damer som en hundevalp.
+ mange flere!
Klikk på LINKEN nå daaaaaa.
Jeg kommer, alle andre kommer, og jeg håper jeg ser deg der også:)
Interview with Sleazy
Heeey guys! Long time no see!
I’ve got a new interview for you.
Aaron Sleazy has been making an impact in the seduction community since
early 2008, when he began devoting himself to seduction. He got very good
within a rather short period of time. Within a few months he regularly pulled
girls home from the clubs. But he didn’t stop there: Less than one year later,
he became infamous for his frequent bathroom pulls and his ability to seduce
women literally within minutes, often while exchanging hardly any words.Would you like to read an interview with this guy? Well, hold on to your chair and keep reading!
How was your life with women before you started with structured game?
If you look up my posting history, you might get the impression that my
development is one of those rags to riches stories where a nerd managed
to overcome all odds to eventually succeed with women. However, such an
interpretation not only leaves out a lot, it’s also misleading. Before stumbling
across the community, I was focussed on my academic training and didn’t really
have women on my mind. At the time, I was giving presentations at Oxford
and Cambridge, among other places. That I would publicly speak on seduction
some years later is at best one of life’s ironies.Back then I considered women to be a distraction towards reaching my goals,
which was the main reason why I didn’t pursue them. Apart from that, however,
I was a pretty well-adjusted guy, social and in decent shape. Naturally, once
I made a conscious effort to get girls, I became good at breakneck speed.
This was not because I had to “learn game”, but simply because my life was
very well balanced before. I also knew enough about fashion and had a well-
rounded personality overall.When I discovered “structured game”, however, I only shook my head in
disbelief and took none of those people seriously, be it Ross Jeffries, David
DeAngelo or whoever else. First of all, from going out in clubs, I knew which
kind of guy pulled girls, and they looked nothing like those Internet marketers.
Instead of listening to the theories some people pulled out of thin air, I began
to go out and learn things on my own, seeing that what was out there in terms
of marketing and “seduction science” was in the best case overcomplicated
and misleading in the worst. My own experiences were much different from
what community lore tries to make you believe, which is one of the reasons
why “PUAs” don’t really appear on my list of influences.Have you ever heard of Occam’s razor? So, what is more plausible — that
there is a hugely complicated model for seduction that takes years to learn
so that you as a man are finally able to manipulate a girl to have sex with
you, or that women are sexual beings in the first place that don’t need much
convincing. Or why do you think they wear tight clothes, show off their cleavage
and parade their legs and asses?What is it like now?
I’m in a relationship with a gorgeous Swede, which means that I am retired
from “game”, but I’ll give you a glimpse: I reached a level considered “good” in
the summer of 2008. From that point onward, until about one year later, when
I got into my current relationship, my love life was extraordinary. It was rare for
me to see less than three women simultaneously. I regularly pulled girls from
the club, and since this got relatively boring for me after a few months, I began
to really push the boundaries and explored with how much you could get away
with in those venues. It emerged that there were seemingly no limits. Weeks
later I had literally one bathroom pull after another, and seduced girls without
using any words — or, to be more specific: there were plenty of instances
where the first thing I said was, “Mmm, that’s good!”. I’ll let you imagine the
context.However, after about a year and a half in the “game”, I began to get really
bored because I had achieved everything I wanted (and more), and I certainly
don’t belong to the group of people that willingly endures repetition. At one
point you’ll feel as if you’ve just seen it all.How would you define your game?
I don’t believe in “game”. All those pickup companies try to sell you the idea
that “game” is the great equalizer that, no matter how you look, how popular
you are, how old you are, and how little money you have, will get you “strippers
and supermodels”, as those sales letters love to wax lyrical about. However, if
you look what’s going on around you, you will be hard-pressed to find a case
where an ugly gnome pulls Scandinavian models off the catwalk. My “game” is
deeply rooted in reality, not theory, which is why it follows three simple steps:1) Find your scene or environment
2) Focus on receptive girls
3) Don’t fuck it upThis is also what I focused on when I had the time to coach the occasional
client, and it’s also the reason why I had to turn some people down. I also
asked for a personal history and some pictures, and if I saw that the guy
completely neglected his body for over a decade and now turned to me with the
wish to learn how to have sex in night clubs within minutes, I told them to get a
reality check and start hitting the gym. In fact, if guys would simply start taking
better care of themselves, most of their problems would be solved. Thus, I don’t
really see any justification for the existence of the “seduction industry”.You see a girl you’re attracted to in the bar. How would you pick her up?
It depends. If she is in a deep conversation with her girlfriend, I’d just let them
talk and look for some other girl. On the other hand, if she looks as if she
needed some entertainment, I might just walk up to her and literally pick her
up and take it from there. Then I’d feel out where she is at. If she is sufficiently
horny, then I’d take her into the bathroom, if this is possible in the venue, or, if
not, tell her to get her stuff so that we can leave.Now you might think that I am a braggart who exaggerates or leaves out
everything, but the vast majority of my pick-ups took much less than 30
minutes. I will spare you some actual numbers, because your readers would not
believe them anyway. I mean, think of it: how long does it take you to decide
that you would fuck a certain girl? If you are anything like me, you’d say it’s a
few seconds at most. And guess what: Why should girls be any different from
us guys?Do you have a favorite technique or routine you use more then others?
In my opinion, focussing on techniques and routines is not only a complete
waste of time but actually counter-productive. Anything that makes you analyze
a situation, hoping to find the ideal situation for your little routine, will sabotage
you. So, it’s best to just get out of your head.If you could teach a guy three things to become a great seducer, what would
it be?Becoming a “great seducer” is a pretty lofty goal, isn’t it? As I see it, the vast
majority of guys in this “community” want to either lose their virginity, get laid
every once in a while or finally get a girlfriend. (Sadly, the same seems to apply
to the incompetent “professional instructors” I’ve seen so often in London.)
Hardly anybody wants to become a “great seducer”, which is good because
while probably any guy could get laid, or get laid more often, becoming a “great
seducer” is elusive for most. The whole “you can become anything you want”
mantra is at best a cliche but nothing you should actually believe. It’s fine
if people want to build castles in the sky and dream of a world in which the
Horatio Alger myth is a reality, while being blind to what is really going on in
front of their door. That’s not my problem.In reality, if guys would just get in shape, get some decent clothes, recognize
which girls are into them and act accordingly, they would get enough girls. After
all, girls want to have sex, too. True, fixing your life and getting in shape can be
hard work, and in our obese times, for many it will be hard work. But after all is
said and done, there is no way around it. Some seemingly need to shell out a
few grand for a “boot camp” to figure out after a year or so that “being social”
doesn’t get you laid and the only thing that does is what we have all known
before: looks, connections, money.What do you think is most important when it comes to getting a girl attracted
to you?Sorry, I just spilled my drink… You can’t get a girl attracted to you if she isn’t
attracted to you to some extent from the very beginning. This is one of the
major fallacies (lies) of the community. The key aspects are thus to know which
kind of girl you want to attract, to become the kind of guy they want (which
is largely a matter of fashion and style), and to show up. However, it is not
possible to “get any girl you want” — quoted from roughly one thousand sales
letters in this ridiculous industry. If there were some magic steps, I wonder why
the people that teach pickup full-time get rejected all the time. After all, theyshould know what to do, shouldn’t they?
I’ve heard you are extremely good at picking up women at the dance floor.
How do you do this?I simply walk up to girls I find attractive (and of whom I can sense that find me
attractive, too), take their hand, pull them in and make out with them. Then I’ll
take it somewhere else. This process doesn’t involve magic.Do you have any tips for guys who struggle with SNL(same night lays)?
This depends on what those guys are actually capable of. After all, there are
guys out there that haven’t gotten laid in years and fantasize about suddenly
being able to pull girls home the same night. But you better learn to walk before
you try to run. That being said, “same night lays” are actually easier than the
usual community-endorsed phone number/date sequence because time is your
enemy. If the girl is into you right there and then, then just leave with her.Guys who are struggling with “same night lays” usually have no idea
how “game” really works. Sadly, this includes plenty of professional instructors,
including plenty of big names I have seen in action in London. They walk
around, “unload their routine stack” on girls, get a number a few minutes later
and do it all over again with the next girl. But what they don’t realize is that a
phone number is not worth much at all. In many cases, and certainly in most of
those I have witnessed of this sad bunch of guys, the women gave them their
phone number only to get rid of them. Thus, they have it all wrong: If she has
a legitimate reason not (!) to leave with you, then and only then, you go for the
number.I know you have a cool and entertaining book with stories about you in the
field, could you tell us about it?Sure. Sleazy Stories: Confessions of an infamous modern Seducer of Women
is a collection of my craziest adventures of 2008. It ends with what I had
considered the pinnacle of pick-up. As I said before, in early 2008 I began to
focus on seduction. Initially, I was nothing more than a somewhat outgoing guy
that got the occasional make-out, I quickly became renowned for my exploits in
night clubs.At first I thought it would be great to just once have a “same night lay,” but I
quickly found those encounters to be rather boring, so I began to push the
boundaries, trying to figure out what was possible. Could I get a hand job on
the dance floor? How quickly can I get sexual with girls? What is possible
in public spaces? Can you have sex with women without talking to them?Those and more questions are answered in Sleazy Stories. It’s not an
instructional manual, even though many people have found it to be not only
very entertaining, but also very insightful, as it offers a rare perspective on a
facet of male/female interactions.
Where can we find the book?
You can buy the book online, for instance on Amazon.com for $12.55
(http://www.amazon.com/dp/3942017008/ref=nosim?tag=aaronslcom-20)or on Amazon.co.uk for £7.59
http://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/3942017008/ref=nosim?tag=aaronslcom-20For people outside the US or UK, The Book Depository is probably the best
option because they offer free international shipping:
http://www.bookdepository.com/book/9783942017008/Sleazy-Stories/?
a_aid=aaron_sleazySleazy Stories can also be ordered in regular book stores. The ISBN is 978-3-
942017-00-8.Well, I only got one more question for you! Any last words to the readers?
I’ve got one last message for your readers: Getting laid is no big deal. The
sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you because then you can focus
on more important things in life. I mean, when I hang out with my friends, we
barely ever talk about girls because we just get laid, and it’s not because we
are “naturals” — which is one of the most ridiculous concepts of the community.
We all get laid and nobody makes a big deal out of it. Some of those guys have
pulled 5-somes and I think it’s interesting, but nothing I feel like emulating.
On the other hand, they’ve seen me over and over pulling girls into bathrooms
after minutes, and hardly comment on it either. After all, some of them have
had similar experiences. And then I write about some of my encounters and
half of the people refuse to believe such is possible… This tells you a lot about
the people in this community. Sometimes you get the impression that people
consider sex to be a myth. But having sex is the most natural thing on earth.
However, when you look at the community it seems that you suddenly need a
PhD if you want to get your dick wet. But how much is there to know about it?
It’s not a lot, really.Thanks man!
Make sure you leave a comment to Sleazy. If you are that ungrateful, that you wont leave a comment, then at least rate the interview
Much love, Rockstar<3
New video from Ross Jeffries especially for you!
Info og påmelding til seminar med Ross Jeffries i Oslo!!
Heisann!
ENDELIG er det mulig å melde seg på seminaret med Ross Jeffries:)
Jeg skal ikke si så mye her, klikk heller på Linken her for mer info og for å melde seg på.
Det jeg skal si, er at datoen for seminaret er 31/7-1/8 2010 og stedet er Oslo.
Prisen blir 400 dollar, MEN det syke her er at du får lov til å ta med deg en venn…GRATIS. Det vil si at det blir 200 dollar pr person om dere spleiser.
Dagens kurs:
400 USD
Amerikanske Dollar
1 USD = 6,37 NOK=
2546,8 NOK
Norske Kroner
100 NOK = 15,71 USDEn kul ting til…dere får mye gratis stæsj av Ross når dere melder dere på.
Det er begrenset antall plasser folkens.
Info og påmelding her:
http://www.rjseminar.com/rockstarpickup/Da regner jeg med vi ses:) Dette er så billig at det er latterlig. Prisen på helgeseminar med Ross ligger vanligvis på 1000 dollar pr person…
Something special
Hey my brothers from other mothers yo yo yo.
This is just a quick note to the Norwegian guys. I’ve got something special for you guys only.
Check it out: http://www.rockstarpickup.com/?p=903
Make it easy for yourself – hand out roles
Heeey guys!
I’ve been lazy. So lazy. For days I’ve been thinking of writing a new article her. After all I have promised several posts a week…my bad. I’ve been busy these days. No excuse, I know. But I still love you, and I hope you still love me too
But you can start calling me lazy boy. Just remember that by doing that you’re giving me a role I will most likely live up to. I recommend that you rather give me compliments for blogging often. Makes no sence? Well, keep reading.
This article contains human insight as well as routines. Enjoy!One day a principle called three of his teachers into his office. Once they were all seated he carried on by telling them that he had been studying their scholastic methods and had concluded that they were the schools absolute best teachers. They were therefore to be given the privilege of teaching the schools most gifted students. The Principle also expected that the grades of these students would rise by 30%. The teachers were told not to share this with anyone else, because of the fear for discrimination lawsuits. The teachers were extremely excited. Who wouldn’t be excited by the thought of teaching the brightest students? At the same time they had been told they were the schools elite teachers, the very best. They were glowing with enthusiasm.
As the year progressed both the teachers and the students were observed. The teachers invested more time in the students then before, were more patient and committed than before. They even helped them after school hours.
The school year ended with the students scoring fantastic results. The grades were on average around 30% higher than the year before, as expected. The scientists who had come-up with the experiment rubbed their hands over the results.
The teachers and students had been randomly drawn. There was nothing extraordinary about the teacher nor the students.
What this all about? Well, the teachers believed that they were the best in their school and that the students they were teaching were the brightest, therefore the teacher now tought with much more commitment and passion then before. It was expected of them to do great things, that they were the best, and they then believed this themselves. Just like that, they had become the best.
This shows how important it is to believe in something. The saying “Belief moves mountains” exists for a reason. Mohammed Ali once said:
“To become a champ, believe you are. If you aren’t a champ, pretend to be”
So if you get a person to believe they posses a skill which they don’t have, that person will generate that skill by pure belief.
We have all been exposed to this. When I was little my parents told a pair of their friends that I was extremely helpful on the home-front, “You are so lucky to have such a helpful young man at your disposal” they said. This was of course not true, I hated it. But I liked this compliment so much that I wanted to live up to it. I started to clean and help around the house. A lot ! Every day after school I did the dishes. This didn’t last forever by the way, but the trend kept on for quite some time.
I have always been the class clown and too passionate and engaged in making people laugh, and thus not talking in class was like saying no to sex. One day my elementary teacher approached me and asked me to stay after hours. I was sure that an oral-rape was imminent for my bad behavior, but what she said was: “Rockstar, the class is very energetic and restless, and trying to maintain order is difficult. They all look up too you because to them you are the class leader and so when you talk they talk. So if you help me keep order, by not talking and making sure they don’t, they won’t because they listen to you. I would be extremely appreciative if you would.”
My teacher was a very clever person, apparently, because of course this was not the case. However I listened to her and swallowed every word, and believed it all. I started taking charge of the class and kept my mouth shut in class. She gave me a role and I jumped into it.If you tell a person he is stupid, he will eventually succumbed to your statement. If you constantly address how bad behavior a child has I can promise you that if it didn’t behave badly before, it will now. People tend to accept who they are, consciously or unconsciously. Unfortunately people tend to become who others convince them they are, then listen to themselves. The power of knowing this and being able to use it can not be stressed enough.
Give people positive roles, give them roles you wish they had, and before you know it, they accepted the role and transformed.
Here are some examples of how you can use this in the field.
My danish friend Karisma, an incredible PUA, often uses this opener on girls: “You look so positive”. What does this line do? Well, he puts the target in a positive role, which she gladly accepts (who doesn’t want to be perceived as positive) and voila she is open for conversation, even though he is a complete stranger.
I myself have used this one to go from opening to general conversation:
“You are so nice! I was sure you were one of those arrogant types, like most of the females around here. Most people are terrified by the though of engaging in conversation with a complete stranger, but not you. the world would be such a happy place if there were more positive people like us.”I often hand out “compliment-roles”/cold reads (Cold reading – to read a person without knowing anything about them) to ladies (and others) to achieve this effect: -You are so cool! – You are so spontaneous! – You are so adventurous, I like that! – Finally someone with hint of social intelligence, you like meeting new people too.
As a small bonus I will add this golden routine.
This routine can make it so much simpler to F-close (sex) the same night you met and also counters LMR (Last Minute Resistance) plus that it is an awesome cold read that your lady-friend will appreciate. I have used this a lot!
Here it goes:
I have noticed something about you. You have something I like to call a sexual energy. This means you are very free spirited kinda girl. Girls with this sexual energy are generally very playful and funny, not to mention adventurous. Does this sound familiar/ like you? It also means that you don’t have as many inhibitions as most people, you are spontaneous and don’t care what others might think. Also you like sex. This means you are a healthy girl. Now don’t get all boastful by this compliment, but it is a hell of trait to posses.
If she doesn’t posses these characteristics she will surely work to achieve them.
Example of how powerful this is: A lady flew from Norway to the Netherlands to meet me a week after I opened her online. Complimenting how spontaneous and adventurous a girl is can accomplish wonders for your game and this cold read is one of the tools you can use. On its own of course this cold read accomplishes little, but combined with the rest of your game = GOLD !
Let her work for it though, like asking her if she can handle receiving a real compliment. When she answers yes, tell her you don’t believe her and that you are unsure if you should tell her(open loop). She will start nagging and you can say: Ok, massage my shoulders for a while and if you do a good job I will tell you as long as you don’t get a big head about it. (As Juggler said – don’t give something to a girl without receiving something in return – be a challenge to give her the feeling that she has to work for you/invest in you. By doing this her “victory”, by receiving her end of the bargain, tastes so much better)
You are only a nerd because other people have given you that role. Do you accept it?
More from Ross Jeffries
Hey loverboys!
RJ is coming to Norway, and here’s more video from him on how to breakthrough to success with women!
This is about overcoming stuck points and was shot for his coaching program members. He’s sharing it here, for free:
Become unstoppable
Hey guys.
I just want to post a little update from my life with you.
It’s been some weird weeks.
I have cried many tears lately. Yesterday I was at a funeral. A beautiful one. My beloved uncle died of a heart attack. 44 years old. BOOM – gone. Tragical. He always said “We have all been given a specific number of heart beats, you better make the best of them.”
Damn I loved that guy. The good die young.
That’s a proud me on the left, my uncle in the middle and my father at the right.
I’m glad we had that vacation together. Prime time. Man, we had fun. We build our cabin, went fishing, had a couple of beers and enjoyed ourself big time.
Losing my uncle made me realize a couple of things. Man I should have called him more often, visited him more often. You never know how much time you have on this planet. Or your loved ones. I knew this before this happened, but I didn’t feel it. Now I do.
Make that phone call you’re thinking about. Spend more time with your family. Cause you never know. BOOM and it’s gone. Do the things you wish you could do. Don’t let fear stop you. Live the life to the fullest
I know I will!Rest in peace, uncle Steinar, you will be dearly missed…<3
Over to something totally different. You Norwegian guys probably know that the company of Jakob Løvstad and I, Alfamann, is put on ice, meaning; it’s put down. Like a dog
No, I’m kidding, it went well, but Jakob wanted to practice what he loved the most, and that was NLP, so he took a course with his girl friend and started up a new company with her. As far as I know that is going great. And that’s awesome. You can check it out if you want: http://www.muene.no/Anyway, I miss bootcamps. Yeah I do. So I made some phone calls and now the big plan is to start over, with a very good friend of mine. Nothing is for certain, but for you Norwegian guys who would like to take a bootcamp with me should be glad. My bet is that we will have our very first bootcamp in the end of may, and it will be the best work I have ever done. But as I said, nothing is for certain yet. We are working on it.
Ok. Moving on. Just a quick update about Ross Jeffries coming to Norway. The seminar will be in Oslo 31 july – 1 August. It will be possible to sign up for this any day now. That is cool…
Last thing, this weekend I’m attending a seminar with Michael Lassen in Oslo as a pupil. It’s called “Become unstoppable”. ICON is working close with him and he convinced me to go see him, cause he is so awesome. How can I refuse?
It’s not expencive, so you should check it out too.Learn more about it on the Norwegian version of my blog: http://www.rockstarpickup.com/?p=901
That’s it for now. I’ll probably post a new interview very soon, or a new post on openers. Just keep checking my blog.
And hey! Remember! “We have all been given a specific number of heart beats, you better make the best of them.”
Love, Fredrik
Interview with TVA_Oslo
Woop woop!
Hehe, it’s funny, one of the biggest names in Norway these days are TVA_Oslo, the funny part is that he is a teenager. Super Talented! Very reflected and very very lethal with women. No boundaries, big balls and a smooth talker.
He is big on the Masf forums, and now also big on the Norwegian forums which he almost revolutionized with his mindsets and extrem sexual game. He’s so young and has his very own strong reality nobody can break. He is loved and hated in the community, mainly because some think he is full of shit, while others thinks the opposite, and of course there is a lot of envy going around. He’s so young and has this mad game. And yeah, it’s for real.
So now, I’ve finally got an interview with this guy.
Ok, put your ego aside and get ready to learn something from a teenager.
Here we go bro!
Thanks, it’s been an honor. I hope you guys will learn something from this.
How was your life with women before you started with “structured game”?
Hum, I started having a real interest for women when I was 11-12. You know when kids start masturbating and shit.
At that time I went to a little private school. I didn’t have many friends because I didn’t like playing football. That made me a bit of an outsider. And guys always gave me a hard time for being a bit original. My self-esteem… well I didn’t really exist. And girls… man I got happy if I got a hug!
I wasn’t popular at all, girls said “EW” to me, face to face, it fucking sucked buddy!When I was 13, the summer before starting in secondary school, I went to Denmark to a holiday place. There I had fun partying on the beach, got drunk for the first time and shit. I met a fucking hot girl, in fact she was stunning! And she became even more stunning when she said she wanted to become a porn star in the future! My sex drive was huge, I wanted to become a player at all cost. I already wanted to fuck a bunch of girls.
That made me even more attracted and horny, and later on I modeled this to make it a technique called sexual prizing (giving hints of you being a good lover) So I started chasing her. I invited her out, paid drinks, dinner, you name it!
I was kind and cool, and she just had a good time.The night came, and a bunch of older guys came to our little beach party. 10 minutes later, she was tonguing down one of the guys! Yeah I felt awesome! Not!!!
The autumn came, I started at a new secondary school, a public one this time, a big one. It started out great, I met a cutie, and she seemed to really like me. Really hot chick, but 1 week later, I started getting bullied like a son of a bitch! And my social status faded down, I ended up even worse than I used to be in the previous school I went to. I didn’t want to get laid; I just wished I could go to school without having lameasses spitting crap on me. This lasted for almost a year. And the girl who liked me, she became the GF of one of the cool dudes. Not cool.
Then one night, I went to a store nearby where I live. There I met 2 guys, one of them an old buddy. I found out we were going at the same school. He was 2 year older. His name was TK and his friend Pingo, actually went to nursery school with me. We talked and I mentioned my issue. The war started. I found out, at that time TK knew everyone, all the cool dudes, the dangerous dudes, and the powerful dudes who could provide everything from cheap clothes of high quality, to drugs, to club entrances at 16 already! Not bad.
He and Pingo was going to show the guys who bullied me a hell of lesson. And trust me, the revenge was beautiful.
The second year of high school went better. Actually I met people outside of school. I was making an empire of contacts. It started with TK contacts and from there I made a bunch of new friends. I felt the power yeah!
They also taught me a lot. They helped me with my style, told me how to behave and stuff! They also introduced me to a bunch of chicks. I started partying thank to my new contacts. I got some kisses sometimes. It was a lot of fun.
- What is it like now?
I met a ugly girl at a party once… I managed to extract her to a school yard, and started licking her pussy, we got busted… I wanted to get laid so badly but it didn’t go well. But I felt closer and closer to the goal.The Christmas came, and I took a trip to Puerto Rico on Gran Canaria. This literally changed my life.
At the hotel, my little brother and my half brother met a little girl. They played with her, and had some fun. Then her sister came. We chatted and had a good time. The hotel was a boring shithole for being honest. No young people around, far from clubs. It sucked. I and the girl wanted to have good time. She was older than me, 2 years actually. She was horny as hell, and started touching me. I didn’t touch much back… because I wasn’t sure if I wanted her yet, till my brother and her sister went to bed we sat on a couch at the hotel reception. Things started getting hot there, really hot. We kissed, touched each other. I took her hand and led her to a lost hotel. We managed to get on a balcony of the hotel room. The Hotel was closed and not in use anymore. She sucked me off after I licked her pussy. But the place sucked so we moved a bit further. We saw a rave tent there, and we started having sex on a rock outside of it.
But she had to go watch out for her little sister, so we went back to the hotel. Her sister was fine and we finished off on the pool table. The next day she told me I was just a friend. She had a boyfriend, but the place where we were situated sucked that much that she couldn’t resist fucking me even more. Oh she was a beast in bed and did a lot of crazy shit. She swallowed my cum as she’s never ate before. From there we had sex everywhere. Hotel room, shower, hotel corridor, bushes, you name it!
When I went home I changed secondary school. With the new mindset, behavior and friends I was hoping starting out a new life. I actually got a lot of friends, the girls started liking me, it all became cooler. But I wanted more.
I got laid 2 month later at a party. Well but a girl blew me under a trampoline.
Then 3 month after that I met another chick who was really into me. Actually she was a younger chick. I was 15 at the time, she was 13 I think. We had sex in a bush at the first date. Good times. She became my GF for 2 weeks, till I went to Turkey. I also had some funny stories there, but I don’t want to make things too long for you dear readers.
After my trip I was starting my last year in secondary school. I met a new friend. He lived in Oslo richest part, was good looking and had a hell of an attitude. He managed to have a lot of parties. One night He laid a smoking hot chick. We sat outside taking a smoke and I asked him how he did it. He answered by explaining about the book “The Game”.
I got a kidney infection few weeks later. So I purchased “The Game”. I didn’t like reading at that time but I swallowed every word of that book like candy. I wanted to go out with my new superpowers. In fact I went to a party before being completely restored. The next day I ended up at the hospital! Cool!
I really liked Mystery, so I purchased “The Venusian Art Handbook”. I didn’t get much result.
But it was a beginning of a real player lifestyle! I trusted this shit, I knew it was possible, and that was enough for me!
Well, right now it’s craziness. I have always been a very original guy, up for adventure. In fact I live for adventures!
I can mostly pick up chicks everywhere (even from the STD clinic), I mean for a few years ago that would feel impossible! And I freaking love to see the face of dudes when I pick up chicks, “WTF?” is the usual impression.
I managed to pull chicks, but I wanted more. Experiment more. I love the rush I get from it. Right now, I am creating a whole new way of pick up never seen before. We all heard Gambler say similar things, but this is completely new! It’s called “gaygame”. Picking up lesbians, and bisexual girls, sarging in gay venues, and use it as your advantage. I am amazed with the results. In fact I had a friend from the lair that went out with me trying it out. He couldn’t believe how easy it was! Why make it hard for yourself!I have periods were I experiment more with one thing more than the other. For instance for 3 months ago I was into dance venues. There I focused on quick escalation dance floor game. The main focuses were actually fingring girls quickly and get hand job on the dance floor. 2 months before that again, I was into threesomes with fuck buddies. Well now threesomes are a pretty easy thing for me because of my gay surrounding. Tons of Lesbos and bi-chicks! Love it!
So how is it now? Well craziness!
I mean I have done so much fucked up shit. Experimenting sexually if my drive. I think I got the best sex life on earth. Sounds a bit douchey, but yeah I do feel it that way.
Today I can go out and end up in some crazy situation. I love this life style.
How would you define your game?
It’s based on understanding: understanding women’s situation. We live in a sexually suppressed society. Women do not have a good sex. They are not used to it. So their sex drive is somewhat sleeping, your job to wake it up. Girls need good sex more than men because it’s harder for a female to get an orgasm than for us men. This is also why women dislike one night stands some times, because the sex they get literally sucks.
So they got a higher chance of having good sex in a relationship. Because then they can get time and chances to show their partner what they really like. Sadly, it doesn’t always work out; in fact the sex keeps being really lame. After an observation, 10% of the girls in relationships get real orgasms. That’s way too bad so I started thinking that they must be seeking it at all cost!
Another thing with relationships: girls can have lots of sex without social consequences. Being labeled as a slut for example is one of their biggest fears. So in relationship they can get a sex provider with no consequences.
But what if a girl knows you can give amazing sex? Without any social consequences! That would change the whole set up.
Girls are more driven by emotions than men. In order to make a girl sexual you have to make her horny. A guy, he knows sex is good from a logic viewpoint. Therefore he want sex. Girls… are more “oh I feel horny, I want cock” or “Yuck sex is bad and dirty…” depending on their emotions.
So escalation is key, you got to lead her emotions into a horny one. It’s called escalating the vibes, creating the momentum were you are both horny and want each other without any obstacles. Just loses the focus on reality. It’s called sexual tension. You don’t only escalate physically, but the whole vibe. This is a concept made by 60 years of challenge. It’s highly recommended to check him out.
So mostly my game is:
* Show her I am a sexual dude, set the sexual frames – Setting the correct frame earlier will make her perceives you the right way. Show her that things are going to get sexual. This way you avoid the shock effect when you are both in bed. “Oh you actually wanted to fuck me” effect. Remember the way she perceives you is the way she will threat you. This can also be a good screening tool for finding girls that fits you. A girl you don’t fit with will give you a bad vibe from the beginning. Especially when you come off as “sexual”.
* Release the pressure around sex and show her I won’t give any social consequences from sex – Many girls got issues about being seen as sluts. This can be both an internal issue and an external one. She might don’t want to be perceived as a slut by others. For instance most guys got a big ego and will brag about the lay. This way she can get labeled as a slut, and she knows this can happen. Or she likes you and doesn’t want to be seen as a slut by you. Many men will judge women for sexual behavior because they think women likes men who aren’t too sexual, so in order to qualify themselves they will act like they are not sexual, heck ever heard the line “I am not only after sex”. So in order to qualify themselves they act like they hate sexual girls. Men are afraid of being labeled as perves. So the key here is to show her you are not that type of person.
* Show her that I don’t judge for sexual desires – This can also help a lot. You won’t call her nasty when she tells you she wants to poop on you, instead telling her you are not up for it but come up with another proposition.
- Showing her that you are a bigger perve will make her feel more comfortable of being pervert with you. “He is more pervert than me, so I can say what I want because I will never be perceived more pervert than him”. Another thing is to appreciate her sexual behavior, show her that you enjoy her sex stories, show her you love hearing about her sexuality. A good rule from my friend Pureevil is, to reward her good behavior (often sexual one) with horniness! In fact show her that she turns you on when she behaves that way (sexually).
* Show her that I am a good lover – Most girls get lame sex from guys, you know; just in and out and bye bye. Show her that you are not that type of guy. Explain to her indirectly why you are not. Hint to her that you are a good lover. A good way to do this is to talk about what you like in bed, tell her what many girls like in bed, and describe in details sex technique. Or simple by telling her a few good sex stories. Make her envy the girls in the sex story!
Read up on some sexology in order to get good at this.* Open her up sexually – Remember an interaction is mutual, sexual tension is mutual, sex is mutual. So ask her a little bit about herself in general and also when it comes to sex. A good thing is that she will want you more since you know a bit more about what she likes and therefore it will hint to her that you can provide it to her.
* Escalating the vibe – This one is also key. You need to show her that you actually like her. Move things forward. Sex talking surely does move forward but you want to escalate maybe physical as well to make it go quickly and more efficient. The term comes from 60 years of challenge. Were the vibe grows from social to sexual and then into mad horniness vibe. Create some moments were you show her that “yeah between us, it’s on”, this is your goal.
* Solving logistics – Can help a lot. Have a place to fuck, and lead her there.
* Persistence – Resistance is good. Avoid it, and persist. She needs to resist in order to feel more safe. She wants to give you all the guilt for the sex, so she can feel less like a slut. Also handling resistance creates even more tension. Awesome!
Now I don’t use all this in any particular order. My field experience just tells me were which technique should be used. I also don’t always use them. For instance let say a girl is horny as hell with no sexual hang ups, well then I will just caveman her. If a girl is horny with sexual hang ups, I would solve those first…
Let’s say a girl got no hang ups but isn’t horny or isn’t attracted, then I know I will have to make her want me sexually.- Try to observe her a bit, read her. Find out where you are and what you should do next. Listen to her vibe.
So Beside of the pointers above, I think it’s necessary to develop some diagnostic skills. “Where Am I now?”
You have a very sexual game. Why all the focus on sexual game?
Well first of all, I said earlier, that when I entered this community I started with the Mystery Method. After practicing it for 3 months, I got one kiss. Horrible results in my opinion. A week later I checked out the players guide on www.fastseduction.com/playerguide. I was reading up a style of pick up called GM style, which was a bunch of techniques based on mixing sexual intent with humor. The same Night I went to a little party and tried it out. I got a blowjob in the bathroom. Sadly this technique worked, but was far from consistent. So from there I started focusing on the sexual way of pick up.
The other reason for why I like it is because it doesn’t only get me laid, it gives you good sex, the sex I want, crazy sex. This is very important for me. It also gave quick results. Why wait?
Okay let’s say you are in a VIP club, really high class. At those places you can find a lot of smoking hot girls. The guys around you are usually rich or got a lot of social value. No matter if you are a pick up artist or not you will have a hard time challenging these guys value wise. Therefore you need to fight in your own league. You won’t be cooler than the guys around… or appear richer…. but what about a good fuck? I can provide that!A last thing is that I don’t fear rejection, what I do fear is having a girl crying on my shoulders. Yeah making a girl attracted to me in another way than just sexual. I just wanted to fuck her but she expected more. With sexual game you show her what the deal is, so you avoid these problems. It’s an ethical thing. About ethics, sexual game isn’t based on bullshit or lying, or hiding your intentions, it’s very genuine. Also it doesn’t seem to set up a frame of who chases who, or who is cooler than who. Well sometimes it does when girls tries to convince me they are better in bed than I am, but that’s a good thing because they will have to prove it
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Normally it creates a very genuine vibe really enjoy it.I love the outcome: sex. But I also love the way to the outcome. I love this type of game because I love being sexual. I love seeing her be sexual. I love feeling the sexual vibe. I love it!
You see a girl you’re attracted to in the bar. How would you pick her up?
It would really depend on how she is really. I can write down about an approach from this Friday. I managed to extract to her place, but her husband came home and I had to act gay to not get beaten up. So here is what I did.
I try to lock some eye contact with her. If that works out I would usually flirt with her a bit from distance and then walk up to her/her group.
If that doesn’t work out I would walk up to her, hover around her until she notices me and then go in and introduce myself, that’s what I did this weekend, I hovered. It makes it feel more like “we noticed each other, why not say hi” instead off “I walked up and tried to break the ice”.
From there I would introduce myself to the whole group, ask a few social questions and show some interest signs to my target and then leave the set.My plan is to reset the frame, and come in with a sexual one right after. For instance I would re-engage by touching her shoulder, whisper “hey there you are” in her ear and grab her hand.
Then move her closer to me.Then the interaction would go like this:
TVA: (touching her): You know I am a man, I like to touch a female body, isn’t that normal?
HB: I think so… (not really interested yet, it’s key to keep your frame and don’t break rapport don’t remove the sexual frame, keep the frame!!!)
TVA: (puts her hand on my own body, creating mutual touching) and you like to touch a male body, that doesn’t mean you love me or anything, but that means that biologically you enjoy it, because you attracted to men. So this sounds weird… but I was thinking, why can’t we just enjoy ourselves, I mean, both men and females?
HB: Well It depends really, I think you have to like the person (that answer is a test to tone down the interaction back to social… hold it were you are, avoid shit like this, it’s a fun destroyer)
TVA: I mean we get labeled different things acting sexual, you girls labeled as sluts use men labeled as perve, but isn’t completely natural? It literally pisses me off that women are the most suppressed and get called out for being slutty!
HB: Yeah I hate it, it’s so unfair. And you guys, you are like what “cool” when you fuck many girls!
TVA: Yeah you girls are as horny as us, so you deserve the same rights!
HB: Definitely!
TVA: I think the problem is, most girls are hiding their sexual desire in order not being judged, afraid of what people think of you etc. but I think that’s the reason you girls get bad sex.
HB: Well yeah I feel dirty and regret it when I push it too far…
TVA: Why? Don’t we all have sex fantasies…? I mean you maybe more dirty things don’t you??
HB: I don’t know?
TVA: I think it’s important to be open minded!
HB: yeah!- TVA: Do you really mean it? Let’s say you love dominance, you know when someone smashes you into a wall (lead her slowly into the wall) look you deep in the eyes (look at her deep in the eyes) and grab your neck (grabbing her neck( and tells you… (go closer to her ear and whisper) “I will fuck so fucking hard because you make me so fucking horny”, would you really be open?
- HB: I dunno…
- TVA: maybe?
- Hb: maybe
- So I managed to get to her place with the excuse: Let’s grab a drink at your place, we can’t just leave such a good conversation, and you are a little cute as well.
- Then at her place I would start touching her, create some tension, tell her I want to lick some pussy and push her down and ask her to relax
And suddenly her husband came home she just had time to put her clothes on.
I don’t have a canned system; I usually talk about sex a lot and create a lot of tension. This is just an example from Friday.
- Other tips, a typical set up:
I think it’s good to reward with sexual intent, if worse I take a step back.
Then I will tell her what women use to like sexually that most men will judge her for. Then tell her that I can’t understand that since I get turned on by it. Then, when I mention the different things women enjoy, I will find out which of them she likes the most and from there I can tell her a story which I have done something similar and then debate from it. This is the usually thing. Then out of the blue I will ask where she lives, and then tell her we are going there for keep talking about this interesting topic. I would avoid her resistance, and ask again 10 minutes later. Usually it seems to work out. This is a good set up
Do you have a favorite technique or routine you use more than others?Yapp, It’s telling a girl straightly into her ear what i want to do with her and make her tell me what she want to do with me. It turns me on so much. But sadly you need to escalate to vibe to a really sexual one in order to make it happen. Also isolation should be considered.
If you could teach a guy three things to become a great seducer, what would it be?
Huum that question is easy:
Enjoy what you are doing – Most guys just enjoy the outcome but not the process to get to the outcome. They hate gaming; they just like to get sex. I love both. I love gaming them the way I do and I love fucking them too. Win win.
Find out what you can provide – Why should a girl be with you. Barely any guys can answer this question. Find out what you can give her that makes you unique? Most guys have no idea. Man, how do you want to get her if you got nothing to give in return? Most guys just answer: “Well I will love her” Sure that’s a good thing, but usually thousands of others guy are saying the same shit. If you know what you can give, you got bigger chances to project it.
The last thing is to go out a lot. I mean, I haven’t been reading much material which has really helped me. In fact you got to go out. Push your comfort zone. This is key, especially your sexual comfort zone. It will increase your sexual confidence. You will be more comfortable touching, or being sexual. Rejection is good thing; it will make you more calibrated in the future. Man I have been blown out a lot hehehe. After all, when you get blown out, you become more calibrated, and when it works you become more confident with the technique. So both are a really good thing. And the cool thing is that infield; you can either win or fail. It’s win win. When you win, try to find out why you won, but be careful, it’s easy to fall into mental masturbation. One way to find out if its mental masturbation or not is going out a few times and try out the same thing as you did previously and see if it works. If it really doesn’t work, then it must be something else that gave you the lay that time you were successful. If you fail, find out why you failed, and find out what you can do to make it better. That way you will become good really fast.
When diagnosing your previous time out, there is a few things that come in handy when you want to diagnosing:
*Logistics – Can be a reason alone for a lay. Was it good? Bad? How much did it matter?
*Her – Sexually closed? Open minded? In state?
*The surrounding – Her friends? How were they? cockblocks?
*Your game – What did you do? Bad or good? What can you change?
*State – what was your state?This can help you model your game pretty well
What is your favorite book?
Book in general?
Sure!
My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday has been a huge inspiration when it comes to understand women. It kind of opened my eyes and made me do bigger searches. It’s fucking crazy when you see what women really like in bed. You know that innocent little girl you are fucking? She got all the good girl traits? Well she likes to be boned in the ass!
What’s most important to get laid?Sexual confidence. Most men are also sexually repressed. Be confident with your own sexuality.
I do believe this is key. How do you want to project that you are a good lover and in control if you are not sexually confident? Being sexually confident is key to give good sex. If you are not, then you are fucked .
Most guys are not sexually confident so this can help you seem like a special price.
In order to be sexually confident:
*Being direct with you intentions
*Be honest about your sexuality
*Don’t hide anything
*Be non judgmental
*Be open minded.I think sexual confidence is something girls can smell from a long distance. I think it’s also very powerful
What is a perfect pick up for you?
Well, perfect pick up?
Perfect girl, perfect vibe and perfect sex followed with a perfect interaction.
I walk up to a gorgeous chick who smiles and who is really cool. She is sexually open, we talk about sex, open up each other, share some crazy stories, make each other wet and make each other want each other even more. Then get an insane sexual tension going on with her, and a crazy round of sex. Then play some Xbox together.
Of course no resistance, no obstacles…
It breaks my heart, but this is the end of the interview… Any last words to the readers?
I just want to say that this have been a pleasure writing down some thoughts.
My last word would be: Don’t be a dumbass.
Learn to walk before running. I’ve heard some guys doing some extreme shit with girls without even nailing the skills of talking to a girl. You won’t have the sexual confidence to do it yet. So don’t for example touch a girl’s pussy out of nowhere just because I’ve had success with it before you can at least keep a conversation with a girl or gotten a few lays. I don’t want you to get any legal problems.
Take step by step and make it sicker for each time, just small movement forward to the insanity. Expand a bit each time you are out.Beside that, have a nice day
- Greetings from:
- The horniest teenager on earth.
Man, this was a great interview. Very instructive and very interesting. Reading this alone could change a lot of mindsets. Thank you TVA_Oslo.
And guys, please show your appriciation by rating and commenting the interview.
Much love, Rockstar <3
The worlds best opener (Openers part 5/7)
Hey guys…
If you read my last post about opinion openers, I’m sure you have been waiting for this one…
Good news, sir! It’s here
Before we go ahead. I just want to say that to focus too much on openers will be counter productive. If you rely on a canned opener to talk to strangers, you’re not where you want to be. But if you are a newbie, it’s genius to start with canned openers since it makes it easier for you to open and may also help you feel less nervous to approach. If you’re not a newbie but love to try new things, this is for you too.
One more thing … an opener will not give you the girl. The way you open is much more important than what you open with. Remember that about 80 percent of communication between two people is nonverbal. Your body language, your facial expressions, eye contact, your voice, how you feel, it’s extremely important to have this in place. Who you are as a person is what ultimately counts. The point with an opener is to give the woman a chance to talk to you. Give her a good first impression.That being said, some openers are better than others, and you get the best canned opener right now …
Are you excited? Motivated?
How about now?
Rockstar presents…:
The Do you know why you suck? opener.
(Inspired by the guy who inventet GM-style, Nathan S.)
ROCKSTAR: Do you know why you suck? (Push – break rapport)
HB: What? No … (You are guaranteed to get her attention, everybody wants to know why someone think they suck)
ROCKSTAR: Now I’ve been over here for five minutes, and you haven’t even said “Hi” once! * Smile * Are you shy or what? (Cocky funny – Pull + Qualifying)HB: Yes / No / Haha whatever.
From here you can go straight into qualifying. Example:
ROCKSTAR: Other than being extremely shy, are you a nice and interesting person too?
You can be creative with this too. Are there more girls, you can address the entire group: Do you know why you guys suck??! If a girl passes you, you can grab hold of her (dominant=good) and say: Do you know why you suck? You were just about to walk past me without saying “Hello”! Are you shy or what?
Let me tell you why this opener is the world’s best. It is simply because it communicates all the right things. The opener is a push pull. You are a little cocky, but also funny. You’re very confident if you go around expecting everyone to say “hi” to you, even if it’s a joke on your part, and she understands it. Self-confident and fun. You stand out from the crowd and you test her, not vice versa. Done correctly, this opener will give you instant attraction.
Just try it out guys, it’s my favorite for a reason. Just remember to be serious when you deliver the “Do you know why you suck? I have been standing over there for five minutes and you haven’t even said hello!” – line. Then you smile, so she understands you’re not totally serious. Be confident! Follow it up with anything. To introduce yourself is a good start.
Next post in the opener-series will be about situational openers. This post will give you great tools to open situational. And situational openers are the most natural way to start conversations too, i know you like that.
And hey, you will also get a little bonus in the end. The moral is; read my next post!Much love, Fredrik aka Rockstar.
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