Interview with Cosy (TheCostOfSuccess)

April 12, 2010 // 5 Comments »

Wohooo!

I got a brand new interview for you guys!

This is the most poetic interview I’ve done. Hehe. Cosy is interesting.

I asked TVA_Oslo, a Norwegian PUA, what he thinks about Cosy and he said he was very cool, and had mad game. I had to interview him. He’s one of the stars on MASF, and now he’s here, just for you guys.

He describes himself as a travelling Don Juan.

I’m a polymath, meaning I am a kind of renaissance man. Meaning I study
all things, skills, sciences, sports, philosophies, poetry..
Kinda like davinci, but a bit different, in that I’m a seducer.

I’m probably most skilled in martial arts, having 3 black belts..

I was popular in my days on forums because of my wild field reports, and
the fact that I pulled girls in seconds, minutes, sometimes without a
word.
The experiences I described sounded so out of this world, that some were
inspired, others were questioning.

Either way, I went around, and people said it was all for real.

I’m more than just seduction to tell the truth

Cool guy, huh?!

This is Cosy everybody! Enjoy!

How was your life with women before you started with structured game?

I’ve never been one to do structured game to be honest and I still don’t
do it now. I guess thats part of my appeal. This wild animalistic man,
whom looks into the girls soul and knows just how to make it come alive.
Its just that approach that makes me unique and alluring.

Before I started with women, I suppose my younger years, I was always too
nervous to make the move. I thought girls liked me, but never had the
courage to do much more than fleeting eye contact or an occasional smile.
Eventually though, I started talking to girls, but because people around
me weren’t that supportive ’say what? No! She isn’t interested in you..
like at all’ I went and did some things undercover at first. Just in
shopping malls and beaches.
I was a bit of a clutz, (a bit clumsy) and being nervous, my cheeks would
flush red and my voice would waver occasionally, when I was trying to be
confident and strike up good conversation. But before long I met some cool
people.

What is it like now?

Well, its hard to describe how my life with women is now.
Its like, I am constantly reminded by a mass of memories that are too hard
to remember all at once. Memories that flood my mind at times, too sweet
and too warm to not let a small smile rise upon the edge of my lips.

Its like I’ve seen another world, been something else.. And it always
calls me back. Its like Leonardo Davinci once said ‘Once you have flown,
you will forever more, live your life looking to the heavens, where once
you were a great eagle’

When I walk down a street, people may move out of my way, girls may
flutter their eyes. However, its more than that..
Its almost as if the world smiles back at me, and the way it can reach me,
is through small moments.

I can remember walking down the street and I felt horrible. I drew my coat
in tight, and let my hair fall infront of my eyes, as I looked down,
slipping anonomously through my tasks I had to do that day. And in a
moment, there was something in the air.. I didn’t quite know what..
I stopped and I turned, lifting my eyes, and there was a woman beaming a
smile, who took my hands.. And with that, I remembered again who I was…

To me, small moments like that mean everything.
I don’t so much remember all the faces quite like you’d expect..
Sometimes, what is immortalised in my mind, is a woman, whose gaze I only
caught once..

Life for me, after the touch of seductions affectionate hold, is all the
more beautiful for it. I am eternally changed, in ways I cannot say, more
than ones I can. And sometimes I fear, I am changed in ways only the
future will tell.

How would you define your game?

I wouldn’t define my game. I know it too well, and know its too alive to
really ever capture with just one sentence.
I actually treat it more like a little puppy. I feed him, play with him,
treat him cool, and then sometimes.. It just does things so far beyond
your imagination, without even knowing it yet, just smiling and panting,
wagging its little tail.
Most people can’t believe what they see me do, nor can they easily define
it. And in this same way, I also treat it.. And in that time it does
something really amazing, its often it feels so natural and so right, that
its like the impossible things happening, are what is normal and natural.

Some say, that my game, is a kind of purity that displays a window into
the way the world can truly be. Thats if they know it well enough..

Most people live their life, ASSURED that one thing is going to be
followed by another. There is no mystery in their world anymore.
However, to me, if I see a woman in a bar.. I don’t just see a good
figure, a dress, and an attitude.

I see the potential of a woman so great, that I could not even whisper but
what she is. So as I peer over to the woman, I do so with a knowing. A
knowing that perhaps behind those eyes lies something so much more.
So I draw her closer, I touch her skin, I kiss her lips, and in doing so,
see right through her, like a chilled mountain wind sees through the
caverns and valleys through which it flows.

In the soul of her eyes, in the caress of her breath, I see so much more.

Do you have a favorite technique or routine you use more then others?

Its true that most people use routines, and techniques. Perhaps thinking
there is no more to seduction than what meets the eye. So ofcourse the
only way to progress, is a technique, or another routine, or something
clever to say.
The cliche is ‘just say hi’.

Well, for me, I’m not going out to pick up girls. I take pleasure in a
womans presence, because of what it allows me to feel.
I can be myself with them, I can let out, all that is me, in those
moments, near her, with her, around her.
And I pay her in return, by looking into her, and seeing what nobody else
can.

As for techniques;

• Look out to the horizon
• Spin the girl
• Take her hand
• Pull her in a little closer
• Act like its the first time you’ve met her (especially if its not)

Old basics I’m sure.

If you could teach a guy three things to become a great seducer, what
would it be?

I was talking to a guy in a boxing gym, not too long ago, and he asked
‘What is the most common mistake.. Something you would say most guys do,
that is really stupid’.
I laughed and came in a little closer.

I began to speak with a hushed voice, indicating some sense of secrecy..
And I began to distract him with other things. For my tips.. Are things
you cannot simply just say..
They are things you can only whisper, even a feathers touch louder, and
they vanish, destroyed by the crudeness of thought and analysis.

So I began to tell him, that seduction isn’t something men should readily
get into, thinking that its about picking up girls. Seduction is something
that no matter what your choice is in life, marriage, monogamy,
polyamorousity, it can make it all the more richer.

I said to him, that in each case, each situation, a person would always
gain, from noticing a little more in small moments. So with a wife, or
women as a whole, just that glimmer in the eyes now and then. Just that
glow to the touch.. That is seduction, and it has nothing to do with your
choices of what to do with it.

As such, seduction is a very beautiful thing, and one of the greatest
things about it, is that you don’t have to do more of it than you want to.
Find the right girl, that will explore those moments with you, more than
others would… And you will find what we all look for, great or small in
the eyes of seduction. A partner, in whom you can trust, who would be
worth the power and life that you infuse in them with your touch.

Top three things, is they should relax, take advantage of the moment and
enjoy it, be in it to create a good experience for both parties.

What’s your view on seduction?

My view on seduction, is that there is another world within this one.
Something rarely seen, but just as true and as real as the one most see.
Seduction has given me insight into greater ways the world can be..
And has left me beyond inspired.

Its difficult to describe the painful love I feel for seduction. I’ve been
in relationships, and never have I ever felt this way about anything.
How cool is that!

I’ve heard you are a God when it comes to sexual tension… How do you
create sexual tension?
Before I came along, I’d never even heard of sexual tension. Now it seems
everyone is hearing about it. No doubt, directly filtering from my
influence, like a rivers flow from the highest point, where the rain falls
and inriches the land.
In a way, I’m grateful that I do not have to spread the word of something
so benificial to peoples lives, and am okay with the way it has spread,
but also there is a story to how I came up with the word and the concepts
inherent to it.

You see, sexual tension, as I have made it become, is far more than the
weak word it once was. Describing simply a moment of suspense in a movie.
For you see, it was something that to me, was unnameable for such a long
time.
For years I seduced women, without knowing what those moments were, or
even being capable of identifying them.

Sometimes I thought I was just being nuts, talking about it.
But generally, sexual tension flows, when a situation is more natural and
spontaneous.

There was one day, when I was walking across the other side of the street
from a drunk woman walking home. Watching over her, as drunk men pursued
her. Making certain she would not be raped, (as just weeks before in this
same spot, I had come across a rape and stopped it).
I felt like ‘oh come on.. not again..’ as I walked across the other side
of the street. I called the police, so they could take the situation off
my hands, and watched over until they arrived.
Eventually a woman passed me by, stopped.. Turned, and began to speak to
me, and we casually spoke for a while. It was just so pleasant because I
really appreciated her helping me get my mind off what I was doing and
make it all seem more casual.
Anyways, the police arrived, and I turned to her.. And in those few
moments, the first time I gazed down at her.. It was like something else.
It was as though distance no longer existed, as I realised how gorgeous
she was smiling up at me. How her breasts felt up against me..

We fell into each others kiss, and I was driven passionately, into her.
And we ravished each other, like I had never done so before.

That was the moment I really started to understand it, and named it sexual
tension.
IT WAS REAL.
I began to see all the moments before me, all the seductions…
And realised it was a common theme amongst all of them.

And with that, the invisible and elusive sexual tension, something that
most have felt but never thought of, was given its name.

Ok…interesting, I didn’t know that, but how can a guy create sexual tension between himself and the girl?

Its something I go on about in my book, so I don’t want to spill too many
details. Its also very VERY complicated and intricate. A great boxer
cannot simply teach such things with one sentence.
However there are small tendencies that arise as tension is being created
that might illustrate some things.
Like for example, edging in towards a woman ever so slightly, without a
feeling of forcing it, but an allure or a movement of the eyes or lips,
preceeding it.

Again its something I go into in my book.

Do you have any tips for guys who struggle with LMR (- Last Minute
Resistance)?

My tip with last minute resistance is to relax.. Hold a woman.. Enjoy each
others company, and if you both so happen to fall into a kiss. Don’t rush.
Relax.

I’ve seen you have this amazing book you have written. Please tell us
about it.

Well, the book is about how there are principles of seduction, that weave
together to make things attractive. Dynamic, adaptive, interconnected
principles, that do more than just make one attractive, but manifest the
very images and experiences we hold in our minds into reality.
These principles are in nature all around us, and with the book, I explain
the seductiveness of all things indirectly, and introduce people to the
true mystique of seduction.
Its my last words on seduction. I don’t give tips, or advice clearly
anymore, and thats because I did it all in that book.
I was just fed up with people asking me, haha, about my views on
seduction. I felt like a broken record, and still nobody understood.
So I wrote the book, so that people could understand like never before, my
views.
It is my last words on seduction. Or atleast.. The learning of it.
Within it, you will find touchings upon everything I would teach.

The funny thing about the book is.. It has in it things I never wanted to
reveal.. Secrets, hidden deep in my subconscious, from other things aswell
as seduction (being a polymath). These secrets, for a while confounded me
as to why they were there, and with them the book took on a whole new
life, and became mysterious even to me. I didn’t really want to publish
it. But in the end, decided to, on a knifes edge because I felt an ounce
more than my desire for secrecy, that for a few it would inspire them so
powerfully that greatness might be opened in their hearts.

I’m a sucker for beautiful things. And the sight and image of that lone
man or woman finding my book and having their breath taken away.. Well..
I figured..
Gah!
You got me.. I’ll let it out of my hands.

How can we get our hands on it?

Go to my website www.whatwefindattractive.com
There is a section there where to buy the book.
It will redirect you to amazon, inwhich you can buy the book from.
Its name is What We Find Attractive: The Mystique Of Seduction
By Taylor Truth.

This is it, as Michael Jackson would have said it. Any last words to the
readers?

The greatist advice I can give is.. Buy and read the book.
I’m not joking.
Get your hands on it.
Even if you have to sell your bike, auction something off on ebay.
You have no idea what that book is really worth. NONE and its impossible
to describe, until you have read it for the first time, and actually seen
it in ALL of its glory.

Kinda sucky for me as the guy that gets paid. But its impossible to
describe just what is hidden in those pages.

And as a final piece of advice. The way you read it matters.
The book itself, fluxes.. It changes, it ebbs and flows.
If you have the right mind when you read it.. It will be so earth
shattering to you, that you might just be spooked and find it hard to keep
reading.

However, if you go at it, with no care, clumsily reading only what shouts
at you, and not hearing the subtle whispers of interconnected meaning, you
will still find an interesting and kick ass read.

So the greatist secret is.. There is more to this book if you read it
right. And if you manage to do that.. You gain utterly priceless
information.

A book has NEVER been written like this before.

And also, since this is my last chance to say it.. I am looking for
remarkeable people. The kind that have something unbelievable hidden in
them somewhere, maybe they don’t even know it. So if you are one of them,
haha, don’t even know why I ask this, its unlikely to work, I want to hear
from you, contact me through my web.

Thank you so much Cosy! I would really like to meet you btw, coming to Norway any day soon?

I may always return.. But it is unknown to me whether I will return to
norway. However, if there are enough who will attend a meeting with me, or
a seminar, I would meet with those guys and give a brief talk and Q and A
for them. Any girls are welcome too. Couples aswell.
To get me to do that, its something I’d find fun if I had heaps of support
and encouragement. Like signing up to my website and contacting me, and
telling me you’d be interested in such a thing and encouraging me to do
it.

After all, I’m kinda like a puppy. Whip it, and it just looks all sad.
Encourage it, and wagging its tail, it happily gives.

Great! Check out his website for more info on the book.

Any questions to Cosy, or comments for the interview, feel free to comment! What? What was that question? Yes, of course you can rate the interview too!

<3 Rockstar

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