Ross Jeffries has a message to Norway!

April 9, 2010 // 1 Comment »

Hey guys!

Ross is coming to Norway this summer as you read in THIS interview. He has a little video made up for you. Yeah, for YOU!

Check it out!

A post about when and how much it will cost will come. I can say right away that it will be in the end of Juli.

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Instructive interview with Ross Jeffries

March 20, 2010 // 11 Comments »

Oh BOY do I have a treat for you guys!

Oh boy oh boy oh boy…

I’m pretty excited about this. I sent a message to Ross a week ago and asked him if he would like to do an interview with me for you guys. You guessed it, he said YES!Not only yes, he would love to do it too!

For those of you who for some weird reason don’t know who this controversial person is; Ross Jeffries is the founder of Speed Seduction, a famous Seduction Guru and one of the main characters in Neil Strauss bestselling book “The Game”!

You know Darth Vaders famous quote “Luke, I’m your father”, well here’s another one for you; “Seduction community, I’m your father”. Hehe, he hasn’t said it himself, point is, Ross Jeffries STARTED the whole seduction community. Cool? Yes!

Find out how Ross approach women. What does he think about “The Game”?  What’s his top three advice and more in this interview.

Are you ready for this? READY FREDDY?!?

I had a little party at my house with a couple of friends of mine the other day. I’m standing in the bathroom doing my thing, when I hear Kristines girlfriend talking english in the livingroom. I didn’t think much of it, until my good friend Espen told me Ross Jeffries was on skype, ready for the interview.”Take your time, Fredrik, She’s doing a good job warming him up for you”.

When I got out there Ross were singing swedish; the themesong of Pippi Longstockings for the girls He told me he enjoyed visiting Sweden not so long ago and he loves Pippi. He’s very curious about Norway. He heard we had the prettiest girls on this planet…Can’t argue with Ross on that one. So after a little bit of smalltalk and fun, we started the interview.

Oh, you’re still ready are you? Btw, in the end of the interview I have a big surprise for you. I mean a HUGE surprise! Excited?! I know I am! “OKAAAAY, ROCKSTAR, QUIT STALLING YOU MORON!!”

Let’s get to it!

Oh, wait, are you sitting comfortable? The cup of coffee is still hot and the porn is turned off? Locked the door so nobody will disturb? Allright allright, I’m sorry, just checking. I want this to be a nice experience…jeeez.

I’m an asshole…

Here we go for real!

First of all, I just want to say how much I appriciate you taking your time to do this interview, it means a lot to me and the fans will love it! I know you are a busy man. One thing I’ve always been curious about is how you reacted to Neil Strauss book “The Game”. Did you like it?

First of all, I’m greatful to Neil for writing the book, I actually gave him the idea to write the book. We were at this hotel in Santa Monica and I said to him “you know what, you should really write a book about the game and the community” and he said he would talk to his editor about it. And the book made me famous all over again. I have so many friends and fans all over the world because of that and I hope some of them are reading this. I don’t think the book is entirely accurate, I think Neil took a few liberties. Not so much so we didn’t get the clear picture, but some of the characters, like Twotimer, was a combination of people to make it easier to write the book. And some of the things he said about me was exaggerated. Like when he wrote me saying “The price for betrayal, is dark beyond measure of your mortal mind”. I actually said it in a Darth Vader voice as a JOKE. I did it as a joke. And he forgot to mention that. But overall I’m very happy he wrote the book.

Me too!! Let’s move on. Tell me, how did you come up with Speed Seduction?

Originally I was looking for ways to solve my own problems, I was not attractive to women, I was afraid of women and had a lot of issues with approach anxiety. When I stumbled upon NLP I read a book by Richard Bandler and John Grinder and I immediately understood that I could use this to solve my own problems. This is back in 1987, probably before you were born! Hahaha!

I was born in 82!!

Haha! Anyway, that’s how I came up with it.

Cool. I’m guessing from the things you just said that you were pretty lousy with women…

That’s true. I got two girls into bed up until 1987, that means I was…uh…I was born in 1958, you do the math. I was nearly thirty years old. Two girls! Terrible. Really terrible.

Then you’re gonna love this question! What’s it like today?

Well today it’s a new reality, not just because I have mad skills, but also I’m sort of a celebrity. “The Game” and Facebook really changed it for me. Now I have female fans from all over the world. But I still mostly rely on game. And I have to say, I’m 51 years old and my last girlfriend who I broke up with, this beautiful swedish girl, was 21 years old. I get along with women under 30 a lot better. They’re so much more fun and vivid.

You see an attractive woman standing alone at the bar, ordering a drink. How would you pick her up?

Well, I don’t like bars. They’re too noisy, and I don’t like loud environments, but what I would do is walk up, I like to do a little preopener, I’d say…anything. First of all I would make a comment on the actual situation that is really funny. It all depends on the situation. A preopener can be anything, If she’s alone I could say “I’m wondering what you’re doing to keep all the guys away from you, cause it’s not working on me.” And then when she laughs “You know, I’m glad you laughed, it shows you have a sence of humor.” It shows you have a sence of humor before you introduce yourself “my name is…”. Now let’s go through that opener. I walk up and I say”I’m wondering what you’re doing to keep all the guys away from you, cause it’s not working on me.” Now that’s a really fynny way to pace her reality, cause the reality is there is no guys in there. I’m saying it in a funny way, so I’m getting rapport by pacing her reality, I’m showing her that I’m funny. And then there’s the next part I do. This part is really crucial to make this work. When I say “I’m glad you laughed, it shows you have a sence of humor” , what is that doing? It’s showing that I’m screening for something more then her looks, and that humor is important to me. I’m showing that I have standards. All of that is accomplished in the space of a minute. Women likes different vibes, and if you can show in the space of a minute that you have all the vibes, you’re halfway home.

So, how would you follow that up? Would you do patterns and stuff or…

There’s two ways I could follow it up: I could follow up with a question that is designed to open up her imagination and emotions, or I could follow up with a fun game. It’s a coin toss, 50/50, half the time I do the question, half the time I do the game. So the game will be something like this: “Let’s play a little quiz that I’ve learned. It’s called the Snack Quiz. Let’s see if we are snack compatible. Cause according to scientists, 98 percent of couples who get along are snack compatible. So let’s see. M&M’s or potatochips?” No matter what she answers, the first answer is always wrong. Then I say “Ok, but it’s two out of three…potatochips or chocolate bars?” We’re just testing to see how she responds to that. The reason I go for this is because women likes games. Women are conditioned to respond to games. The format or subject isn’t important, if it’s a quiz or game. So I could start with a game or a question. Now that question is designed to open up her imagination.

So the the question I like to ask is “You know, I’m really curious, cause I’ve found out I really learn a lot about people by learning what really grabs their attention. So  when you want to focus in, to give all you attention to do something you really love to do, what do you want to do? That question is designed to give her pleasure, and then I can play on that.

What’s your favorite pattern, when it comes to get the girl attracted to you?

My favorite pattern has to do with how I show up. What you do with your body, what you do with your beliefs, what you visualize in your mind, what you’re doing with your energy and vibe. So, 50 percent of this has to do with how you show up. Remember, patterns aren’t just language. So my favorite pattern is how I show up.

Great! I know some people think Speed Seduction is unethical, how do you look at it?

Why is it unethical for guys to systematically attract and please women? I don’t see that as unethical at all. Now here’s what unethical; using anyones system, my system, Mystery Method, Real Social Dynamics, you can use anything to hurt people. The system itself is neutral, it’s the way you use it. I actually believe that speed seduction is the most honest system, cause it doesn’t rely on pretending to be something you’re not. You don’t need platform heals, paint you fingernails or pretending to live a lifestyle you’re not. Speed seduction doesn’t rely on this, but it does rely on you being smart. If you’re stupid I can’t help you. Now why would I want to help stupid people breath…hehehe. Let them die out, you know

I’m just curious, is the girls there listening now?

No, they are out smoking…

Oh, I hate smoking! But ok, let’s continue.

How can a guy get to be really good at Speed Seduction? I’m guessing it’s about a little more then just memorizing patterns?

Immersion. You know when you take a bath and you get your whole body into the water, not just the tip of your toe? That’s it. Immerse yourself into it. Take my courses. Don’t just listen or read’em once, listen to them nonstop. Join my coaching program at rjcoaching.com, you can talk with me live four times a month for 1 dollar the first month and get your questions answered. Also surround yourself with other guys doing this. DON’T mix it with other systems. Speed Seduction doesn’t mix well with other systems. It’s like trying to take chocolate and put som shit in it.

Haha!

So don’t take the shit from other systems and mix it with the fine chocolate of speed seduction

Hehe, I like you Ross! Do you teach body language and how to speak and stuff too?

No, I absolutely teach training routinality, but more important I teach beliefs.Training your energy, training your vibe…

Yeah, cause the body will follow?

Exactly!

Train yourself to be strong and commanding, fun and spontanious, train yourself to show a deep understanding to the womens world and then finally train yourself when to show them your world. Cause sometimes women want to feel that they understand you better then any other women in the world. So sometime you have to reveal something from your inner world. Not all the time of course, but once in a while. I think one of the keys to women is emotional variety. Knowing when to be strong and commanding, when to be fun and so on.

If you could teach a guy only three things to be good with women, what would it be?

Number one, control your state. Learn to build in a confidence that doesn’t rely on being accepted or rejected.

Number two, learn to look differently at how women create their world. Womens emotions, like love, desire, connection, attraction, are not things, they’re processes that women do inside of their body. If you learn to look at processes and activity instead of things, you will be able to see these things in her and be able to link them to yourself.

Number three, of course, learn to use your language to capture and lead a womans emotions and open up those parts of her mind that are useful for seduction. And to shut down those parts that are not useful.

Really good answers. But Ross, what are you up to these days?

Well, I’m writing a new book! I haven’t written a book since 1988. It’ll be published in two months. I’m also gonna start doing seminars on persuasion you can use in marketing, speaches, sales and such. How you use it outside the bedroom for business and outside of seduction.

Interesting! Well, this is it, Ross. Any final words before we wrap it up?

I’d say this, no matter how bad things are for you, I’ve been there and over 22 years, tens of thousands of students of mine have been there too. You are not alone in your struggle, you’re not alone with your sticking points, there are answers too if you’re interested. It’ll be my mission and my honour and privilege to help you with this. If you’re interested go to rjcoaching.com.

Thank you so much for this, Ross!

One more thing btw, you should look up my Norwegian friend Joergen Rasmussen, he has written the best book written on NLP in twenty years, it’s called provocative hypnosis. You should check it out. He’s a brilliant guy!

Yeah, my partner Jakob also recommend that book. Exellent Ross! Good luck to you! See you in the summer.

Yeah, thank you, we’ll talk soon!

That’s it guys. Hope you liked it. If you want to check out Ross website to learn more about speed seduction click here.

Yours

Fredrik Worren Rockadoodlestar.

Oooooh wait, I almost forgot the big surprise!!

I promised you a surprise, a huge surprise. That surprise is for my norwegian readers though. Ross Jeffries, “Seduction community, I’m your father” is coming to NORWAY!!! This summer! 2010! This is not a joke! More info on this will come. Just be aware, your father is coming to see you

PS! Also remember to rate and share the interview, and I’m sure Ross would love it if you dropped of a comment too

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