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Hehe, it’s funny, one of the biggest names in Norway these days are TVA_Oslo, the funny part is that he is a teenager. Super Talented! Very reflected and very very lethal with women. No boundaries, big balls and a smooth talker.
He is big on the Masf forums, and now also big on the Norwegian forums which he almost revolutionized with his mindsets and extrem sexual game. He’s so young and has his very own strong reality nobody can break. He is loved and hated in the community, mainly because some think he is full of shit, while others thinks the opposite, and of course there is a lot of envy going around. He’s so young and has this mad game. And yeah, it’s for real.
So now, I’ve finally got an interview with this guy.
Ok, put your ego aside and get ready to learn something from a teenager.
Here we go bro!
Thanks, it’s been an honor. I hope you guys will learn something from this.
How was your life with women before you started with “structured game”?
Hum, I started having a real interest for women when I was 11-12. You know when kids start masturbating and shit.
At that time I went to a little private school. I didn’t have many friends because I didn’t like playing football. That made me a bit of an outsider. And guys always gave me a hard time for being a bit original. My self-esteem… well I didn’t really exist. And girls… man I got happy if I got a hug!
I wasn’t popular at all, girls said “EW” to me, face to face, it fucking sucked buddy!
When I was 13, the summer before starting in secondary school, I went to Denmark to a holiday place. There I had fun partying on the beach, got drunk for the first time and shit. I met a fucking hot girl, in fact she was stunning! And she became even more stunning when she said she wanted to become a porn star in the future! My sex drive was huge, I wanted to become a player at all cost. I already wanted to fuck a bunch of girls.
That made me even more attracted and horny, and later on I modeled this to make it a technique called sexual prizing (giving hints of you being a good lover) So I started chasing her. I invited her out, paid drinks, dinner, you name it!
I was kind and cool, and she just had a good time.
The night came, and a bunch of older guys came to our little beach party. 10 minutes later, she was tonguing down one of the guys! Yeah I felt awesome! Not!!!
The autumn came, I started at a new secondary school, a public one this time, a big one. It started out great, I met a cutie, and she seemed to really like me. Really hot chick, but 1 week later, I started getting bullied like a son of a bitch! And my social status faded down, I ended up even worse than I used to be in the previous school I went to. I didn’t want to get laid; I just wished I could go to school without having lameasses spitting crap on me. This lasted for almost a year. And the girl who liked me, she became the GF of one of the cool dudes. Not cool.
Then one night, I went to a store nearby where I live. There I met 2 guys, one of them an old buddy. I found out we were going at the same school. He was 2 year older. His name was TK and his friend Pingo, actually went to nursery school with me. We talked and I mentioned my issue. The war started. I found out, at that time TK knew everyone, all the cool dudes, the dangerous dudes, and the powerful dudes who could provide everything from cheap clothes of high quality, to drugs, to club entrances at 16 already! Not bad.
He and Pingo was going to show the guys who bullied me a hell of lesson. And trust me, the revenge was beautiful.
The second year of high school went better. Actually I met people outside of school. I was making an empire of contacts. It started with TK contacts and from there I made a bunch of new friends. I felt the power yeah!
They also taught me a lot. They helped me with my style, told me how to behave and stuff! They also introduced me to a bunch of chicks. I started partying thank to my new contacts. I got some kisses sometimes. It was a lot of fun.
The Christmas came, and I took a trip to Puerto Rico on Gran Canaria. This literally changed my life.
At the hotel, my little brother and my half brother met a little girl. They played with her, and had some fun. Then her sister came. We chatted and had a good time. The hotel was a boring shithole for being honest. No young people around, far from clubs. It sucked. I and the girl wanted to have good time. She was older than me, 2 years actually. She was horny as hell, and started touching me. I didn’t touch much back… because I wasn’t sure if I wanted her yet, till my brother and her sister went to bed we sat on a couch at the hotel reception. Things started getting hot there, really hot. We kissed, touched each other. I took her hand and led her to a lost hotel. We managed to get on a balcony of the hotel room. The Hotel was closed and not in use anymore. She sucked me off after I licked her pussy. But the place sucked so we moved a bit further. We saw a rave tent there, and we started having sex on a rock outside of it.
But she had to go watch out for her little sister, so we went back to the hotel. Her sister was fine and we finished off on the pool table. The next day she told me I was just a friend. She had a boyfriend, but the place where we were situated sucked that much that she couldn’t resist fucking me even more. Oh she was a beast in bed and did a lot of crazy shit. She swallowed my cum as she’s never ate before. From there we had sex everywhere. Hotel room, shower, hotel corridor, bushes, you name it!
When I went home I changed secondary school. With the new mindset, behavior and friends I was hoping starting out a new life. I actually got a lot of friends, the girls started liking me, it all became cooler. But I wanted more.
I got laid 2 month later at a party. Well but a girl blew me under a trampoline.
Then 3 month after that I met another chick who was really into me. Actually she was a younger chick. I was 15 at the time, she was 13 I think. We had sex in a bush at the first date. Good times. She became my GF for 2 weeks, till I went to Turkey. I also had some funny stories there, but I don’t want to make things too long for you dear readers.
After my trip I was starting my last year in secondary school. I met a new friend. He lived in Oslo richest part, was good looking and had a hell of an attitude. He managed to have a lot of parties. One night He laid a smoking hot chick. We sat outside taking a smoke and I asked him how he did it. He answered by explaining about the book “The Game”.
I got a kidney infection few weeks later. So I purchased “The Game”. I didn’t like reading at that time but I swallowed every word of that book like candy. I wanted to go out with my new superpowers. In fact I went to a party before being completely restored. The next day I ended up at the hospital! Cool!
I really liked Mystery, so I purchased “The Venusian Art Handbook”. I didn’t get much result.
But it was a beginning of a real player lifestyle! I trusted this shit, I knew it was possible, and that was enough for me!
Well, right now it’s craziness. I have always been a very original guy, up for adventure. In fact I live for adventures!
I can mostly pick up chicks everywhere (even from the STD clinic), I mean for a few years ago that would feel impossible! And I freaking love to see the face of dudes when I pick up chicks, “WTF?” is the usual impression.
I managed to pull chicks, but I wanted more. Experiment more. I love the rush I get from it. Right now, I am creating a whole new way of pick up never seen before. We all heard Gambler say similar things, but this is completely new! It’s called “gaygame”. Picking up lesbians, and bisexual girls, sarging in gay venues, and use it as your advantage. I am amazed with the results. In fact I had a friend from the lair that went out with me trying it out. He couldn’t believe how easy it was! Why make it hard for yourself!
I have periods were I experiment more with one thing more than the other. For instance for 3 months ago I was into dance venues. There I focused on quick escalation dance floor game. The main focuses were actually fingring girls quickly and get hand job on the dance floor. 2 months before that again, I was into threesomes with fuck buddies. Well now threesomes are a pretty easy thing for me because of my gay surrounding. Tons of Lesbos and bi-chicks! Love it!
So how is it now? Well craziness!
I mean I have done so much fucked up shit. Experimenting sexually if my drive. I think I got the best sex life on earth. Sounds a bit douchey, but yeah I do feel it that way.
Today I can go out and end up in some crazy situation. I love this life style.
How would you define your game?
It’s based on understanding: understanding women’s situation. We live in a sexually suppressed society. Women do not have a good sex. They are not used to it. So their sex drive is somewhat sleeping, your job to wake it up. Girls need good sex more than men because it’s harder for a female to get an orgasm than for us men. This is also why women dislike one night stands some times, because the sex they get literally sucks.
So they got a higher chance of having good sex in a relationship. Because then they can get time and chances to show their partner what they really like. Sadly, it doesn’t always work out; in fact the sex keeps being really lame. After an observation, 10% of the girls in relationships get real orgasms. That’s way too bad so I started thinking that they must be seeking it at all cost!
Another thing with relationships: girls can have lots of sex without social consequences. Being labeled as a slut for example is one of their biggest fears. So in relationship they can get a sex provider with no consequences.
But what if a girl knows you can give amazing sex? Without any social consequences! That would change the whole set up.
Girls are more driven by emotions than men. In order to make a girl sexual you have to make her horny. A guy, he knows sex is good from a logic viewpoint. Therefore he want sex. Girls… are more “oh I feel horny, I want cock” or “Yuck sex is bad and dirty…” depending on their emotions.
So escalation is key, you got to lead her emotions into a horny one. It’s called escalating the vibes, creating the momentum were you are both horny and want each other without any obstacles. Just loses the focus on reality. It’s called sexual tension. You don’t only escalate physically, but the whole vibe. This is a concept made by 60 years of challenge. It’s highly recommended to check him out.
So mostly my game is:
* Show her I am a sexual dude, set the sexual frames – Setting the correct frame earlier will make her perceives you the right way. Show her that things are going to get sexual. This way you avoid the shock effect when you are both in bed. “Oh you actually wanted to fuck me” effect. Remember the way she perceives you is the way she will threat you. This can also be a good screening tool for finding girls that fits you. A girl you don’t fit with will give you a bad vibe from the beginning. Especially when you come off as “sexual”.
* Release the pressure around sex and show her I won’t give any social consequences from sex – Many girls got issues about being seen as sluts. This can be both an internal issue and an external one. She might don’t want to be perceived as a slut by others. For instance most guys got a big ego and will brag about the lay. This way she can get labeled as a slut, and she knows this can happen. Or she likes you and doesn’t want to be seen as a slut by you. Many men will judge women for sexual behavior because they think women likes men who aren’t too sexual, so in order to qualify themselves they will act like they are not sexual, heck ever heard the line “I am not only after sex”. So in order to qualify themselves they act like they hate sexual girls. Men are afraid of being labeled as perves. So the key here is to show her you are not that type of person.
* Show her that I don’t judge for sexual desires – This can also help a lot. You won’t call her nasty when she tells you she wants to poop on you, instead telling her you are not up for it but come up with another proposition.
* Show her that I am a good lover – Most girls get lame sex from guys, you know; just in and out and bye bye. Show her that you are not that type of guy. Explain to her indirectly why you are not. Hint to her that you are a good lover. A good way to do this is to talk about what you like in bed, tell her what many girls like in bed, and describe in details sex technique. Or simple by telling her a few good sex stories. Make her envy the girls in the sex story!
Read up on some sexology in order to get good at this.
* Open her up sexually – Remember an interaction is mutual, sexual tension is mutual, sex is mutual. So ask her a little bit about herself in general and also when it comes to sex. A good thing is that she will want you more since you know a bit more about what she likes and therefore it will hint to her that you can provide it to her.
* Escalating the vibe – This one is also key. You need to show her that you actually like her. Move things forward. Sex talking surely does move forward but you want to escalate maybe physical as well to make it go quickly and more efficient. The term comes from 60 years of challenge. Were the vibe grows from social to sexual and then into mad horniness vibe. Create some moments were you show her that “yeah between us, it’s on”, this is your goal.
* Solving logistics – Can help a lot. Have a place to fuck, and lead her there.
* Persistence – Resistance is good. Avoid it, and persist. She needs to resist in order to feel more safe. She wants to give you all the guilt for the sex, so she can feel less like a slut. Also handling resistance creates even more tension. Awesome!
Now I don’t use all this in any particular order. My field experience just tells me were which technique should be used. I also don’t always use them. For instance let say a girl is horny as hell with no sexual hang ups, well then I will just caveman her. If a girl is horny with sexual hang ups, I would solve those first…
Let’s say a girl got no hang ups but isn’t horny or isn’t attracted, then I know I will have to make her want me sexually.
So Beside of the pointers above, I think it’s necessary to develop some diagnostic skills. “Where Am I now?”
You have a very sexual game. Why all the focus on sexual game?
Well first of all, I said earlier, that when I entered this community I started with the Mystery Method. After practicing it for 3 months, I got one kiss. Horrible results in my opinion. A week later I checked out the players guide on www.fastseduction.com/playerguide. I was reading up a style of pick up called GM style, which was a bunch of techniques based on mixing sexual intent with humor. The same Night I went to a little party and tried it out. I got a blowjob in the bathroom. Sadly this technique worked, but was far from consistent. So from there I started focusing on the sexual way of pick up.
The other reason for why I like it is because it doesn’t only get me laid, it gives you good sex, the sex I want, crazy sex. This is very important for me. It also gave quick results. Why wait?
A last thing is that I don’t fear rejection, what I do fear is having a girl crying on my shoulders. Yeah making a girl attracted to me in another way than just sexual. I just wanted to fuck her but she expected more. With sexual game you show her what the deal is, so you avoid these problems. It’s an ethical thing. About ethics, sexual game isn’t based on bullshit or lying, or hiding your intentions, it’s very genuine. Also it doesn’t seem to set up a frame of who chases who, or who is cooler than who. Well sometimes it does when girls tries to convince me they are better in bed than I am, but that’s a good thing because they will have to prove it
I love the outcome: sex. But I also love the way to the outcome. I love this type of game because I love being sexual. I love seeing her be sexual. I love feeling the sexual vibe. I love it!
You see a girl you’re attracted to in the bar. How would you pick her up?
It would really depend on how she is really. I can write down about an approach from this Friday. I managed to extract to her place, but her husband came home and I had to act gay to not get beaten up. So here is what I did.
I try to lock some eye contact with her. If that works out I would usually flirt with her a bit from distance and then walk up to her/her group.
If that doesn’t work out I would walk up to her, hover around her until she notices me and then go in and introduce myself, that’s what I did this weekend, I hovered. It makes it feel more like “we noticed each other, why not say hi” instead off “I walked up and tried to break the ice”.
From there I would introduce myself to the whole group, ask a few social questions and show some interest signs to my target and then leave the set.
My plan is to reset the frame, and come in with a sexual one right after. For instance I would re-engage by touching her shoulder, whisper “hey there you are” in her ear and grab her hand.
Then move her closer to me.
Then the interaction would go like this:
And suddenly her husband came home she just had time to put her clothes on.
I don’t have a canned system; I usually talk about sex a lot and create a lot of tension. This is just an example from Friday.
Yapp, It’s telling a girl straightly into her ear what i want to do with her and make her tell me what she want to do with me. It turns me on so much. But sadly you need to escalate to vibe to a really sexual one in order to make it happen. Also isolation should be considered.
If you could teach a guy three things to become a great seducer, what would it be?
Huum that question is easy:
Enjoy what you are doing – Most guys just enjoy the outcome but not the process to get to the outcome. They hate gaming; they just like to get sex. I love both. I love gaming them the way I do and I love fucking them too. Win win.
Find out what you can provide – Why should a girl be with you. Barely any guys can answer this question. Find out what you can give her that makes you unique? Most guys have no idea. Man, how do you want to get her if you got nothing to give in return? Most guys just answer: “Well I will love her” Sure that’s a good thing, but usually thousands of others guy are saying the same shit. If you know what you can give, you got bigger chances to project it.
The last thing is to go out a lot. I mean, I haven’t been reading much material which has really helped me. In fact you got to go out. Push your comfort zone. This is key, especially your sexual comfort zone. It will increase your sexual confidence. You will be more comfortable touching, or being sexual. Rejection is good thing; it will make you more calibrated in the future. Man I have been blown out a lot hehehe. After all, when you get blown out, you become more calibrated, and when it works you become more confident with the technique. So both are a really good thing. And the cool thing is that infield; you can either win or fail. It’s win win. When you win, try to find out why you won, but be careful, it’s easy to fall into mental masturbation. One way to find out if its mental masturbation or not is going out a few times and try out the same thing as you did previously and see if it works. If it really doesn’t work, then it must be something else that gave you the lay that time you were successful. If you fail, find out why you failed, and find out what you can do to make it better. That way you will become good really fast.
When diagnosing your previous time out, there is a few things that come in handy when you want to diagnosing:
*Logistics – Can be a reason alone for a lay. Was it good? Bad? How much did it matter?
*Her – Sexually closed? Open minded? In state?
*The surrounding – Her friends? How were they? cockblocks?
*Your game – What did you do? Bad or good? What can you change?
*State – what was your state?
This can help you model your game pretty well
What is your favorite book?
Book in general?
Sure!
My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday has been a huge inspiration when it comes to understand women. It kind of opened my eyes and made me do bigger searches. It’s fucking crazy when you see what women really like in bed. You know that innocent little girl you are fucking? She got all the good girl traits? Well she likes to be boned in the ass!
What’s most important to get laid?
Sexual confidence. Most men are also sexually repressed. Be confident with your own sexuality.
I do believe this is key. How do you want to project that you are a good lover and in control if you are not sexually confident? Being sexually confident is key to give good sex. If you are not, then you are fucked .
Most guys are not sexually confident so this can help you seem like a special price.
In order to be sexually confident:
*Being direct with you intentions
*Be honest about your sexuality
*Don’t hide anything
*Be non judgmental
*Be open minded.
I think sexual confidence is something girls can smell from a long distance. I think it’s also very powerful
What is a perfect pick up for you?
Well, perfect pick up?
Perfect girl, perfect vibe and perfect sex followed with a perfect interaction.
I walk up to a gorgeous chick who smiles and who is really cool. She is sexually open, we talk about sex, open up each other, share some crazy stories, make each other wet and make each other want each other even more. Then get an insane sexual tension going on with her, and a crazy round of sex. Then play some Xbox together.
Of course no resistance, no obstacles…
It breaks my heart, but this is the end of the interview… Any last words to the readers?
I just want to say that this have been a pleasure writing down some thoughts.
My last word would be: Don’t be a dumbass.
Learn to walk before running. I’ve heard some guys doing some extreme shit with girls without even nailing the skills of talking to a girl. You won’t have the sexual confidence to do it yet. So don’t for example touch a girl’s pussy out of nowhere just because I’ve had success with it before you can at least keep a conversation with a girl or gotten a few lays. I don’t want you to get any legal problems.
Take step by step and make it sicker for each time, just small movement forward to the insanity. Expand a bit each time you are out.
Beside that, have a nice day
Man, this was a great interview. Very instructive and very interesting. Reading this alone could change a lot of mindsets. Thank you TVA_Oslo.
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Much love, Rockstar <3
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